Zai kan xin niang, seeing the bride again
At the first Lantern Festival after the wedding the bride dresses as she did on the day and lets the neighbourhood look at her again.
Pronunciation zài kàn xīn niáng｜Rites of passage｜One entry in the Chaoshan glossary
What it means
An occasion held around the Lantern Festival: the bride dresses again — the red skirt, the headdress, the embroidered shoes she wore out of her own house, none of it left off — and sits in the hall, or stands by the well at the head of the village, for the neighbourhood to come and look.
Those who come are mostly the women and children of the lane. They come in and offer a word of congratulation, and the household hands round sweets, cigarettes and tea; some families set out a table of sweets and sweet tea. The more who come, the better the household looks.
When you see it
At the first Lantern Festival after the wedding. Some places choose another day rather than the festival itself; some fold it into the lantern procession, so that after seeing the bride everyone goes to see the lanterns.
Words easily confused
This is not the teasing of the bridal room, which happens on the wedding night and lasts one night. This comes at the Lantern Festival, some time later, and the people who come are the neighbourhood, not only the invited guests. Nor is it the return visit, where the bride goes back to her own family; here she receives at her husband’s.
Read next: Marriage here: from the six rites to seeing the bride again at the Lantern Festival.
See also: Rites of passage: five thresholds.
Same group: the return visit, the bride’s lament.
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